Matt, your post about your kids was funny. You seem to really have this fatherhood thing figured out. I wanted to ask you a question about that. My wife is pregnant with out first child and I am worried. I feel like I am not cut out for this. I’m not sure that I’m dad material. I’m not sure I’m meant to be a father. We weren’t planning on this kid. But here we are. The thing is that I really enjoy my free time and we had looked forward to taking trips and things together. All of that seems to be out the window now. I don’t know if I can be a dad. I’m not the “fatherly” type. I’m really not sure how we can fit a kid into our lives right now. I guess I’m just wondering how you knew that you were cut out for this.
Hi,
First of all, congratulations.
Second, don’t assume that anyone has anything “figured out” just because you see their pictures on Facebook.
Third, take a breath. Everything will be fine.
Fourth, I get it. I wasn’t sure if I was Dad Material, either. I always thought there should be some way to test for it. Like maybe they could take a blood sample or something. “Your results are in. Your cholesterol looks fine but unfortunately you came back negative for Dad Material.” They could use that same test for Mom Material, Wife Material, Husband Material. Maybe even College Material, if medicine has advanced that far.....................
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